No matter how you say you feel or how you think you’re able to have mindless sex without a care, I’m telling you it’s impossible.
Every partner you’ve ever been with has taken a piece of you…with or without your consent you have allowed your worth to trickle out body by body.
There is no one with a high body count that feels great about themselves.
Even if you told me you did I wouldn’t believe you because there’s nothing great about finishing and then not wanting to be there anymore.
I think more people should really think about sex and the decision they’re making before they do it with just anyone because honestly it’s not worth it. It’s not worth the self doubt and the scars on your pride. It’s not worth looking at yourself and not seeing someone you’re proud of.
Men, I get that you have needs but you shouldn’t put that in front of a woman’s worth. We as women get so caught up in trying to please you we lose ourselves and though you may say that’s our fault you shouldn’t want to contribute to that.
Wrap it up. Save that 15 mins for the woman you really care about and what to be next to after its over, the person you can talk to about anything, save it for someone you see yourself investing time into…
Don’t be so quick to just give it away.